Trickster, Dancer, Healer: Life Lessons From My Horse

I’ve checked my wireless continuous glucose monitor and adjusted the basal insulin rate on my pump accordingly for the activity level that I anticipate over the next 2 hours. I change from my running shoes into my weathered, muddy barn boots, grab the halter, a lead, a couple of treats and a dressage whip. The sky is silver-gray this morning as I approach the gate to the paddock, and the ground is wet. I call his name and he lifts his big white head and turns it to face me. The rest of him doesn’t move, just that long sinuous neck. He looks at me for a moment and then drops his head and goes back to eating hay from the flake at his feet. Knowing he will not come to me today, I open the gate and set out across the field to him, squishing through a mixture of mud, shit, weeds and straw that is wet from this morning’s rain, sinking to my ankles at every step. You can’t always have what you want when you want it, and sometimes you have to work harder for it.

The smell of barn swells up around me as I make my way across the muck, lifting the lead rope high so that it doesn’t get dirty. I inhale and am happy. It doesn’t take a lot to make you happy. I reach him where he is standing on dry, higher ground and he lifts his head again and turns his face to me, his dark, liquid eyes assessing me, his nostrils expanding as he takes in my scent: Do you have anything for me? He is calm and unhurried. My time means nothing to him. Slow down. Don’t hurry. Be here. Pay attention to details.

There are treats in the barn, I tell him, stroking his long, muscular neck and massaging between his ears, feeling myself slowing to the beat of his heart. I stand next to his head, just in front of his chest and hold up the halter. He puts his face down into it so that I can reach to pull it on over his ears and fasten the cheek snap. If you are gentle and patient, good things will happen.

 I speak to him softly of inconsequential things as I snap the lead rope to the ring on the halter and begin to walk back toward the gate. He doesn’t follow, and I reach the end of the lead rope with a jerk. Slow down. Take stock. Be aware of what is happening. I take the few steps back to him and run my hands along his shoulders and back, down his front legs, and up to his face, checking for sore spots or injuries. What’s wrong? I ask. He puts his nose next to the pocket of my jacket, where the treats are hiding. His nostrils open and flex, taking in the scent. Yes, I say. There are treats. You get them when we get to the barn. Come on, I urge, tugging gently on the rope and turning in a different direction this time, not toward the gate, but toward the green, drier terrain across the top of the paddock. This time he follows, nuzzling his nose against the back of my arm. Adjust your expectations. You can’t always get where you want to be by going directly toward it. Be willing to try different paths.

I turn gently at the apex of the field and start a loose semi-circular motion in the general direction of the gate. We step carefully through the deep muck, each of us lifting our legs high between each step: my two, his four. Our feet make sucking sounds as we go. It’s nice to have company on a shitty journey.

 Then we are at the gate. I open it and lead him through, then turn to close it behind us to keep the others in, and he turns in a graceful arc, resting his head on my shoulder as I fasten the chain back in place. If you are patient and kind, you won’t be alone.

 I turn and pick up the dressage whip where I left it leaning against the fence, anticipating the next step of the game, and sure enough, he plants his feet squarely and refuses to move them, lowering his neck and head towards the pocket with the sweet-smelling treats in it. Just when you think you have control of the situation, you don’t.

I know, I say. Molasses and oats. Yummy. In the barn. I urge him forward, using the whip not to hit, but to tickle feet and legs that I cannot reach when I am trying at the same time to pull him forward with my other hand. He weighs 1200 pounds and I’m about 130. There is no way I can outmuscle him. When physical strength can’t get you where you need to be, you must be creative and persuasive – and determined.

 I have to get him to want to do what I want him to do – or at least to agree to it. He stands firm for a moment as I try to be patient and persuasive. I need to be firm and assertive, but not impatient or aggressive, or he will simply refuse. You can’t get angry or impatient and expect cooperation.

At length he begins to move forward in the direction I want him to go as I tickle his belly just behind his front leg and urge forward with the lead rope. I keep talking, promising wonderful things if he comes with me, and praising him for each step. Slow and jerky at first, one step at a time, then more smoothly, we walk down the path toward the barn and the arena. If you stay calm and keep trying, eventually you will make progress. Celebrate every step forward.

I know his ways and he knows mine. We have been doing this for more than ten years, this dance of competing objectives, motivations and desires. Although we both know that he enjoys a brisk rubdown with the curry comb and then a thorough brushing of his coat in smooth, long strokes; that he loves when I preen him and tell him how handsome he is; he will not be rushed into the transition from being in the paddock with his buddies to being in the barn with me. We both know that he doesn’t have to do what I want him to do; that he may agree to it, even enjoy it, but he doesn’t have to do it.   If you are patient and persistent, you may achieve what you are trying to achieve. Collaboration requires cooperation.

By the time we get to the barn, we are walking in perfect rhythm, his head low and his neck long and loose. I give him one of the treats from my pocket, and he takes it gently from my hand, using his lips to clean up any crumbs. He munches contentedly as I start to groom him, cleaning the dust and mud from a coat that emerges snowy white underneath. When I was a child, I dreamt of a white, winged horse that came to my bedroom window and whisked me away on his back for nights of adventure among the stars. Ten years ago, I found him, learned at last how to ride and somehow, improbably, he became mine. He has a sense of mischief that puts me firmly in my place when I think I might be in charge of him. This is a partnership, not a dictatorship.

We both love the dance we do together when I sit on his back and he becomes an extension of my body. Then we move as one being, and I am a centaur. I move him by moving myself in very subtle ways: a movement of calf, an opening or closing of fingers, a shifting of weight, a turn of my head. Sometimes, I have only to think of what I want him to do and he does it. Sometimes, I think he can read my mind, other times, only my heart and soul. If I am honest with him, if I am true and present and completely in the moment and only that, he will dance with me and share with me his grace and power.

And I will be healed again; made whole by the strength and beauty, the calm authenticity of this magnificent being who shares his magic with me. The simple, ancient truth of horse and human dancing together as we have done for tens of thousands of years. I may not always be in control, but I can always be part of the dance.

 These are the lessons my horse teaches me and if I am willing to learn, they apply equally to my relationship with my chronic medical condition, type 1 diabetes. I may not always be in control, but I can always be part of the dance. Sometimes, I may even lead.

© Lynda Covello, 2015. All rights reserved.

Winter Must End

(Image and text © Lynda Covello, 2015. All rights reserved. )

Okay, Winter, it’s time to let go.

We had our good times —

Bright days with sun-diamonds on the white breast of the land,

Brilliant star-lit nights with the snowy landscape reflecting the moon’s glow.

Wild runs through the knee-deep white, whooping our joy to the heavens,

Precise turns carved with sharp skiis gliding us downhill –

But it’s time to go now.

You are not what you once were, young and fresh and clean.

You’re just a dirty old man now,

And you need to leave.

Yo-Yo-Land: Monday, March 23, 2015

( © Lynda Covello, 2015. All rights reserved. )

9:50 am: Just returned from the daily morning dog-walk, I am feeling a little wonky, and so I test. The CGM (Continuous Glucose Monitor) says I’m over 4, but the capillary blood from my finger says 3.7. Perhaps not a huge difference from a statistical standpoint, but I feel the difference: at 4.2, I feel a little weak and disconnected from myself, but at 3.7 I’m dizzy and I feel completely empty inside. It’s getting hard to think. I pour myself a big glass of orange juice (about 50 grams of carb), down it fast, and sit down to wait. I know I can’t do anything relevant in this state, so I try to read the paper, but can’t hold the necessary concentration. My brain doesn’t work well at this low a BG (Blood Glucose).

Meanwhile the CGM, having been corrected with the new info, is determined to let me know I’m in trouble and the low BG alarm keeps going off every few minutes. It’s annoying, but that is what it is designed to do, so I ignore it and wait for the juice to kick in and bring my brain back to me. Five minutes go by. Ten. At fifteen, I test again, according to protocol – you have the let the sugar in the juice do its work and bring up your BG to reasonable levels and you have to give it some time to do that. I have learned the hard way that if I just keep inhaling simple carbs, I may feel better sooner, but I will start an upswing that will be hard to correct before it takes me up into the high teens or even higher.

The meter reading is 3.0.

So my BG has continued to fall, in spite of the nearly 50 grams of carb I ingested 15 minutes ago. I pour myself another glass, shorter this time, only about three-quarters of a cup – roughly 25 -30 grams of carb – shoot it down. And wait.

I hear the dog vomiting in the front hall, which he has no business doing in the house after a good hour on the trail, and I feel annoyance and confusion, but I can’t deal with that right now. I file it away for future action.

Fifteen minutes later the CGM says I’m up to 4.0, but my capillary blood test reads 6.6 and I am capable of coherent thought again. I recalibrate the CGM, and decide to have 1/16th of a pumpkin pie to consolidate (carbs, but also some fat to slow down the absorption) so that I can get started with my day’s work, because it’s already 10:30. The label on the box says the pie should be 13 grams of carb, so I consult the on-board computer and it suggests 0.80 of a unit of insulin should cover that, but reminds me that I already have 0.85 units in my body from a previous bolus. That is what is left in my system from the bolus I gave at 7:30 am and I added it because when I awoke this morning my BG was 15.4 – too high, likely from a low I treated before bed last night. That low was the result of a dog-walk as well, one that I had not planned for, but tried to manage with a temporary basal reduction of 30% and a small ginger molasses cookie (10 grams carb, according to the package). My BG was fine when I went to bed at around midnight, then the CGM high alarm went off at 1:30 am, alerting me that I was at 13.1. I woke up and gave the recommended bolus, shut off the high alarm and went back to sleep. When I woke up, the CGM showed that I stayed at 13 all night long, but when I did a meter test, it revealed that I was higher at 15.4. The CGM needs to be recalibrated every 12 hours and it was time to do that, so I did, and gave a corrective bolus to cover the current situation, plus part of the breakfast I planned to eat. I left about 0.30 of a unit out of the bolus to give me the flexibility for my daily morning one-hour walk with my dog. That is usually enough to keep me from going low after the walk, but not today, apparently.

10:48 am: the CGM is now alarming that my BG is rising fast at 9.1. At 10:56 it tells me that I’m at 10.1.

I test and I’m 11.4. I ask the meter if I should bolus for this, and it recommends not, since the corrective would be 0.80 units and I have 1.04 on board already. I wait.

I decide to check out the front entrance and there is clear yellow liquid all over the floor. It’s vomit, not pee, but I gag anyway as I layer some paper towels over it to soak it up. I can’t deal with it yet.

At 11:06 I test again and I’m up to 13.7. I ask for a recommendation and the meter suggests a corrective bolus of 0.30 of a unit to bring my BG back into target (6.5 – 7.5). I give the bolus, knowing that my whole day is going to be like this, chasing my BG with insulin and food and trying to get back to stasis. It won’t really matter what else I do today, I’m going to go high for a while and the really hard part will be not over-reacting to that, but waiting patiently for my BG to come down slowly and stabilize in the desired range. I must resist the temptation to rage-bolus when it continues to rise in spite of the insulin that I have already given it. That would only push it back down too fast and make me go too low again. I must be patient, calm and persistent until I am back where I want to be.

At 11:20 I test at 14.3. Sigh. I give the 0.20 of a unit suggested by the meter to supplement what I’ve already given. I check again at 11:53 am: 14.2.

At 12:48: 14.0. incremental boluses given as recommended. At 1:00 pm I bolus for 30 grams of carbsfor lunch.

I eat my lunch and get to work. I have email to check and problems to solve for clients. I have a jazz cabaret that I’m writing and vocal exercises to do to maintain my chops. I’m also working on connecting some people in the not-for-profit world in the arts community as well as in the healthcare space.  I have a 4:30 meeting downtown with a business colleague from Chicago who happens to be in Toronto, and then at 6:00 pm I have a workshop session for a T1D experiential education session we are putting together. I can’t afford a sick day. I have too much to do.

At 3:15 pm I test again and I’m up to 17.2. Shit! Way too high. The meter is recommending another corrective bolus: 2.20 units. I give it and wait for it to kick in.

Much, much later, at my 6:00 pm workshop session, I test again because I’m going to have some pizza.  8.0. Halleleiuiah! Of course, when I get home at 10:00 pm, I’m back up to 15.

My life is a science experiment, and I am the lab rat.

Lost in Transition

( © Lynda Covello, 2015. All rights reserved. )

First posted November 14, 2013 on www.t1thinktank.com and www.patientcommando.com

I was diagnosed with T1D at the age of 14 and a half, just before I was about to start high school in the fall of 1973. I spent August 29th in a ketoacidotic coma and most of September in hospital recovering and learning how to give myself needles. There were no doctors in Thunder Bay at that time who had the necessary expertise to help me manage my condition, and the nurses, in my experience, were often dangerously misinformed.  It was rough going, and the attitude was:  try this and see, try that and see. Bring her to Emerg if she loses consciousness.

There was no glucose self-monitoring, and the only way to find out what my BG was, was to go to the hospital and get it tested.  I did test my urine at home, which told me what my BG was several hours before. So it was kinda like crawling through a dark tunnel trying to figure out where I was going by the feel of the surfaces around me, never really knowing where I was or what was next. I was dangerously thin and the advice was to fatten me up by feeding me about 3500 calories a day, accompanied by massive doses of insulin. It was physically impossible for me to keep all that food down and I spent my days feeling nauseously full, dizzy, drowsy and weak, fluctuating between very high and very low blood sugar levels.  Then my pediatrician sent me back to school.

That didn’t work out too well. I was not well enough to function in school and the school administrators and teachers were terrified of me – or rather, of what might happen to me on their watch.  I was effectively grounded: not allowed to participate in any athletic activities, after-school clubs or field trips.  The attending GP, who was clearly out of his depth, advised my parents that the best thing to do was to send me to school, see if I went comatose, and if I did, bring me to Emerg, where they could check my blood sugar.  That was his strategy for trying to regulate what he called my ‘extremely  brittle’ diabetes.

My mother said no. My mother is my secret weapon, and her determination, intelligence and tenacity are probably the reason I’m still alive. She was trained as a nurse, but had retired about 9 years earlier when her 3rd child was born. Now, she had a 4 year-old, a 9 year-old, a 12 year-old, as well as 14-year-old me and my brand new diabetes.  She decided to keep me home from school until we got this thing under better control and I gained some weight.  Her methods were unorthodox and frowned upon by the Thunder Bay medical community, but I was not hospitalized again from that time while I was living at home. She fed me the same simple, fresh ingredients based, balanced meals cooked from scratch as we had always eaten.   I gained ten pounds and kept it on.

My days were a balance of rest, light exercise and studying to keep up with the work I was missing in school. My teachers came to the house to tutor me and were much more comfortable there than they had been with me in their classrooms. I read voraciously, which I had always done anyway, and leaped ahead in school.

I did miss out on all the social aspects of the first months of high school, though, which was brought home to me rather starkly when I was out on the driveway hitting a tennis ball against the wall of the house one afternoon and a former classmate from Grade 8 saw me and came over. He stared at me in a very strange way for about 45 seconds, and then he said:

‘Lynda? Is that you? We thought you died.’

And he really meant it.  I got the same reaction from a number of people I knew when I finally did properly start high school about a month later:  I think it was Novemberish.  I was up to date academically, even a little ahead, but woefully behind socially.  I was isolated and strange, and no one really trusted me not to die on the spot.  I was excluded from clubs and cliques, and social interaction and never really caught up. No one understood my reality, and no one wanted to be friends with me. As far as I was aware, I was the only 14-year-old with diabetes in all of Thunder Bay, perhaps all of Canada.

Sometime that month, my Aunt June, also a nurse, went to a lecture on juvenile diabetes given by an endocrinologist visiting from Toronto Sick Children’s Hospital. My mother, not considered a practicing nurse (although she had a 24/7 patient with a serious medical condition) was not allowed to go. Neither was I, merely the person trying to live with the disease, considered worthy of attending such an event.  Anyway, my aunt came out of that lecture hall and directly over to our house with the name and contact information of the endo.  My mother called our GP the next morning and said that we were going to see this specialist, with or without a referral from him.  He balked a little bit at her impertinence — nurses did not talk to doctors this way in 1973 – but in the end gave us the referral.

We went to Toronto in mid-January of 1974, my mother, father, brother and I. They checked in to the Park Plaza Hotel and I checked into Sick Kids Hospital.  While my dad and brother went to museums and art galleries, my mother and I learned the basics of living with T1D: weighing and measuring food portions, calculating insulin dosage to match exercise and food intake, learning that my ‘mood swings’ were related to blood sugar highs and lows and not just a feature of my personality or my adolescence. And of course, hearing (and seeing graphic photos of) the awful prospects of the life ahead of me: failed kidneys, heart disease, blindness, amputations and inability to have children, death within 30 or 40 years.

After a week, my father and brother went back to Thunder Bay. After another week, my mother refused to leave me behind at the hospital and took me back home with her. Oh, and did I mention that I had my 15th birthday and got my very first period during that stay at Sick Kids?  That was fun, not to mention the ongoing and acute embarrassment of being the subject of roving bands of doctors, medical students and god knows who else coming into my room, drawing the curtain around my bed, stripping me of my flimsy hospital gown and talking about me in the third person while discussing my illness.  The trauma is still with me, and I will do just about anything to avoid being admitted to a hospital.  My throat starts to close up and I fight to breathe anytime I’m in one, even as a visitor.

Anyway, in spite of all this, I worshipped the endo, because he seemed to understand the disease and he gave mom and I ACTIONABLE and PRACTICAL advice about how to deal with it.  We went home much better equipped than when we had arrived.  I never came back to Sick Kids for another appointment, but we managed to keep me out of hospital in Thunder Bay for the next 4 years or so. Then it was time to go to university.

I don’t think I had ever been more excited in my life than when I moved to Toronto to go to University of Toronto in the fall of 1978.  I had been living with diabetes for 5 years, and I had learned a lot about how to manage it. I had also learned how to hide it from others so that I didn’t have to deal with their fear and misunderstanding.  By the time people found out I had T1D, they were usually very surprised, because I seemed so ‘normal’. But I was living with a big secret, one that I couldn’t ignore, which affected my life on a minute to minute basis.

I was excited about being in Toronto where I could see my endo, but I soon found out that I was too old, at 19, for the pediatric system or Sick Kids Hospital, where he was based.  He gave me a referral to another endo who saw adults.  I MEANT to make an appointment to see her, I really did, but I just didn’t get around to it.

This was the first time I had ever lived away from home, and I knew that my parents were nervous, but also that they trusted me to figure things out. I was nervous, too, but determined to manage.  There was a lot to manage.  I had no control over the preparation, content or timing of my food. I was in residence and on a meal plan.  My inquiries as to what EXACTLY was in the food were met with blank stares and silence by the cafeteria staff.  I should have gone over their heads, but that would mean disclosing my T1D and I was afraid I would be kicked out of residence.  So I didn’t eat very much from the cafeteria, mostly fresh fruit, cheese, bread and crackers, which I knew how to calculate my insulin for.  The casseroles, deserts and ‘mystery meals’ were just too dangerous.  I bought peanut butter, crackers, and apples that I kept in my room, and that is basically what I ate from September to December. I lost too much weight again, and that complicated matters more.  I gained most of it back on my parents’ good cooking during the three weeks I was home over the holidays.

After Christmas, I went back to my diet of PB, apples and crackers, supplemented once a week by a trip to Frank Vetere’s, an Italian restaurant that had all-you-could-eat pasta on Wednesday nights for about $6. By the end of January, I was so fucked up that I passed out in the washroom on our residence floor after spending the whole night throwing up.  I was back in ketoacidosis. Someone called an ambulance and they took me to the hospital. I met my new endo in Emergency when I guess somebody noticed my medic-alert bracelet. I don’t know, I’m not sure how she found out I was there, but she knew who I was and that I was supposed to have made an appointment to see her. It was around my 20th birthday.

Everything changed after that. My new endo took me on and taught me how to take care of myself. She sent me to the diabetes education centre, which is where I spent my reading week that year, and kept encouraging and supporting me, and most importantly, mentoring me and TEACHING me how to manage my condition. She didn’t judge me based on my blood sugar results and always treated me like a whole person with a whole life, not just a patient with a chronic illness. The attitude was: this is complex and difficult, but it is your reality and you can deal with it. It should not stop you from doing anything that you want to do with your life. I will help.

The thing that strikes me as I write this is that it didn’t need to be this way. I didn’t need to get lost in transition between pediatric and adult care. The fact that my mother and I had been managing basically on our own since my diagnosis, with key help from our one visit to Toronto to see an endo did not prepare me to fly solo. Too much was changing in my life right then for me to be able to establish a new relationship with a new healthcare provider.  I needed support, but I was afraid that asking for it would mean a whole new set of judgmental, controlling HCPs who blamed me for my disease and my inability to control it perfectly.  The fact that I had a fantastic new HCP team just waiting to help me was not adequately communicated to me, and I felt isolated and helpless.

In meeting and discussion with other T1D patients, I hear a lot of people talk about how supportive the pediatric system is for T1D kids and their families. There seems to be a lot of investment and resources there, but nothing for adults living with T1D.  Once you turn 18, you’re on your own. This has to change. The American Diabetes Association, in a Position Statement published in November of 2011, says:

 “The transition from pediatric to adult diabetes care represents a very high-risk period for a person with diabetes, a perfect storm during which interruption of care is likely for multiple reasons.”

 No kidding.

Coming Out

(Photo © Peggy Lampotang, text © Lynda Covello, 2013. All rights reserved. )

First posted on August 12, 2013 on www.patientcommando.com.

So, after 40 years of following the first rule of T1D Club — Don’t talk about T1D —  and disseminating the information that I live with this condition on a need-to-know basis only, this has been an emotionally challenging week for me. ‘Coming out’ as a person living with T1D in a very public way, using my August 14 gig as a vehicle to end the secrecy and raise awareness feels terrifying.

What will people think of me now? What will the reaction be? The reason I went underground in the first place was to avoid dealing with people’s adverse reactions to finding out:

The uneducated, unsophisticated, unsolicited and dangerous healthcare advice (“Don’t eat anything with gluten”; “Stop eating any carbohydrates”; “Take (choose one: garlic/vitamin E/Omega 3/ St. John’s Wort) supplements and you won’t need insulin”; “You aren’t allowed to have sugar, so I’m not going to give you that orange juice you just asked me for, even if you say you are having an insulin reaction”; and so on, ad nauseum);

The fear and exclusion: (“Lynda can’t come to the sleepover because she might die in the night and spoil the party”; “I (teacher) can’t possibly take Lynda on the field trip; I have 20 teenagers to watch and I’m not a doctor”; “You are diabetic? Oh, sorry, we already (choose one: filled the position/rented the apartment)”;

I want to say to the world: We are here. We walk among you, undetected and overachieving because we have to work hard to be ‘normal’. But we are tough. And smart. And tough and smart beats ‘normal’ any day. You don’t know our reality, don’t understand what it’s like to be like us. So just let us be. Just let us be and watch what we can achieve. We will surprise you.

STILL STANDING ON MY ORIGINAL TWO FEET.

( © Lynda Covello, 2015. All rights reserved. )

This was the writing that opened the floodgates, first published in July 2013 on www.patientcommando.com. I’m obviously older and wiser now…

August 29 – My Coma Day

August 29, 2013, is the 40th anniversary of my Coma Day — the day I spent in a coma while my doctors tried to figure out what was wrong with me.  Turned out it was Type 1 Diabetes, and they were able to bring me back to consciousness the next day.  Every year on that day, I celebrate another year of surviving and thriving in spite of all the dire predictions I was given by the medical community during my slow, painful progress back to a point where I could be released from hospital (I think it was a few months, but it was so long ago, and I was so young, I think I have skipped over that in my memory to a great degree).  In a nutshell, it went something like this:

You will never:

live past 40

have kids

be able to participate in sports

be healthy

be normal

be able to manage a challenging job

You will:.

have your feet and legs amputated

lose kidney function and need transplants and dialysis

have heart disease and multiple heart attacks

go blind

spend a lot of time in hospital

die young

…and so on….

As this milestone approaches, I am inspired to look back on the past 40 years, and do a little tally.

Dead by 40: So…I’m 54 and still here.

Never Have Kids: I have 2 healthy grown sons and a wonderful husband to whom I have been married for over 25 years.

No Sports: I have been alpine skiing, swimming, horseback riding, cycling and hiking for most of my life, with no plans to stop anytime soon. I also love big dogs who need lots of exercise. I have a Siberian Husky and we walk for about 2 hours every day.  I also ride my horse as often as my work schedule permits. I love Yoga, swimming and Tai Chi.  I take the stairs instead of the elevator whenever I can, and I would rather walk than drive to run my errands.

No Challenging Career: I have 3 university degrees: an Honours Bachelor of Arts specializing in International Relations, a Bachelor of Laws, and a Master of Laws. I have worked pretty steadily since I graduated from law school the first time, in 1985. I have worked as a Bay Street lawyer, General Counsel for a pharmaceutical company, and an international business consultant, among other things. I also enjoy guest lecturing at law schools and I teach professional business people how to manage intellectual property for business through various industry organizations.

Normal:  Okay, what’s normal and who wants to be it, anyway? I love to paint, write, take photographs, and oh, yes, I am a professional jazz vocalist. I have a band and we play in jazz clubs and restaurants. I also have a regular jam session with a bunch of friends every week, where we sing and play rock and pop songs.

Amputations, etc: Umm.. I still have all my original parts and they are all still in good working order.  My heart, kidneys, eyes, lungs, liver, etc. all seem to be working just fine.  I haven’t been admitted to hospital since I had my youngest son, more than 20 years ago.

And, oh, yes, I’m still standing on my original two feet.

How Did This Happen:  All this didn’t happen by accident, and I did not do it alone.  I have had the support of my family and friends, and wonderful and dedicated health care providers along the way.  And oh yeah, science.

Science: I was lucky to have been born after Charles Best and Fred Banting discovered insulin and how to extract and refine it from cow pancreas.  Before that, Type 1 Diabetes was a death sentence.   Biotechnology made it possible for me to replace the insulin my body doesn’t make with genetically-engineered human insulin that doesn’t cause the side effects that beef and pork insulin used to.  Dedicated research and new technologies have made it possible for me to test my own blood sugar levels wherever I am, multiple times every day so that I can keep track of what’s happening and adjust accordingly, instead of going to the lab once a month for a test that was essentially useless in the day to day management of my condition. A medical device, called a smart insulin pump lets me have constant control over how much insulin I am getting and adjust it to allow for all the other variables that affect my health.

Science and technology have made it possible for me to live the kind of life I want to live, and to have control over my medical condition. Don’t get me wrong, it’s still a lot of work, all day, every day. I still have to keep track of everything I eat and drink, count carbs, adjust insulin for exercise, manage stress, and plan for the unexpected.  There is no holiday from diabetes, it is with me wherever I go and whatever I do, and there have been many times when I just wanted to quit.

But the problem is this: if you quit, you die.

So….still standing on my original two feet and, as the Monty Python skit goes: ‘Not dead yet.’

Not even close.

Does the world really need another blog?

(Photo ©  Peggy Lampotang,  text © Lynda Covello, 2015. All rights reserved. )

Probably not. Yet here I go. I’ve decided to write this blog to collect my thoughts on life and living and to consolidate some of the other writing I’m doing as I navigate the transition from keeping my thoughts to myself or only writing privately, to sharing them and being in conversation with others. I know that I have enjoyed reading other people’s blogs, have learned from them or reflected upon them, and I’m hoping that you enjoy mine. But if you don’t, that’s okay. Just stop reading.

Still here? Okay. A lot of what I have been writing in the past year or so has been inspired by my experiences as a patient ‘voice’ in the Type 1 diabetes community. I’ve been living with T1D for a long time – 41 years now – and there is a very good chance it will be with me until I die. Although it influences me and has shaped my life in important ways, it does not define me. This blog will not shy away from talking about T1D and how it impacts my life, but neither will it be only, or even primarily, about that. There is so much more to me and my life than just how I manage my chronic medical condition. If anything, I have a greater appreciation for the things life can bring me, a hunger for living and experiencing as much as I can in the best way that I can, than I did prior to my diagnosis. So there’s gonna be a lot of talk about life, art, music, family, animals, nature, literature, and so on and so on. This will not be a how-to-live-better advice column, or a whipping post for the difficulties of living with an incurable medical condition. All you will get are my musings and thoughts about my experiences and the things going on around me.

So, to begin.

I started writing non-fiction again in the summer of 2013, after a transformative experience with the T1 Diabetes Think Tank Network, a group of people using the arts in innovative ways to improve communication between Type 1 patients and their healthcare providers. After many years of keeping my medical condition mostly under wraps, and not speaking publicly about it, I found this community of people made me feel that it was safe and not just selfish, but actually helpful to others, to talk about it. So I wrote a couple of short pieces that first appeared on their website: www.t1thinktank.com. I reproduce them here just to give some context about how this started